Scarlett's sex secrets
When I want to turn a man on, I light candles and put on a rock CD. Then I dress up in lingerie, garter hose and knee-high boots. I take off everything but the boots and then undress my man. I kiss him softly at first, then start using more tongue. A lot of my friends don't like giving blow jobs, but I love it. Exciting a man excites me. It does more for me than having him perform oral sex on me. I'm selfless. I can't handle it when a guy goes down on me for longer than 15 seconds. I just want to have sex. So I'll hop on top of him and start grinding. I love it when a man plays with my nipples while I'm riding him. It's a simple, effective way to get extra stimulation.

Instead of an after-dinner drink
A good after-dinner activity is browsing around a sex shop. I love to see how guys react to being in that atmosphere. It's a fun way to break the ice. It's like a grown-up version of taking a trip to Toys R Us. You play with the toys on display and have a laugh. I'm always picking up toys, turning them on and saying, "Whoa, look at this." Then the guy turns red. And I love trying on the stripper clothes they sell at adult stores. I like simple dates, too. I wouldn't complain if a guy gave me roses, but I'd much prefer he cook me dinner. I recently went on a great date. All we did was go out for Indian food, then drink at some pubs. It was perfect.